Tirza Schaefer | Crystals by Susianna

Crystals for Love

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Crystal Support for Lifestyle Changes

When we think of crystals for love, the first crystal that springs to mind for most people will be Rose Quartz. However, there are many types of love and depending on what kind we are talking about can determine the choice of crystal you may want to use. Generally speaking pink or green crystals, think crystals related to the Heart Chakra (Anahata), relating to love and compassion), are the ”go to” crystals to use for love.

If we have been hurt in love, we may have blocked or closed the Heart Chakra down in order to protect ourselves from future pain. It can easily be reopened, either by using these crystals or by an energy healer who can check and balance all of your chakras, clear the blockage, and allow us to forgive, release and love ourselves and others.

The heart shape is the symbol we use for love and the colours for the Heart Chakra are pink and green; maybe that’s why we associate the colour pink with love and all the phrases that go with it, such as looking at life through rose-tinted glasses, feeling in the pink etc. Here are a few of the crystals that are beneficial for love:

Crystals for Attracting Love

Crystals for Healing a Broken Heart

Crystals for Relationships

Crystals for Self-Love

Amazonite - maintains deep love and connection, allowing you to communicate clearly, openly and lovingly with each other.

Clear Quartz – to cleanse any bad vibes, negativity or stressful thoughts away from you whilst amplifying the properties of the other crystals you are using.

Emerald - the stone of successful love which encourages loyalty. It enhances partnerships, unconditional love and unity whilst keeping the relationship stable.

Jade - attracts harmony and true love.

Lapis Lazuli - the stone of communication brings compassion, harmony and honesty to a relationship and assists active listening. It is dedicated to Venus (the Roman version of the Greek Aphrodite), the Goddess of Love.

Malachite - a balancing crystal which will help you feel safe and secure in opening your heart up to all types of love.

Moonstone – helps calm overreaction to situations and clears old emotional patterning thus allowing for a peaceful relationship.

Rhodochrosite – helps heal the many layers of love within yourself and to empower your self-worth. (Use in combination with Rose Quartz, to let go of the past).

Rhodonite – helps heal a broken heart. Its vibrational energy brings forgiveness and compassion to relationship problems. One of the best crystals for healing the heart of emotional trauma.

Rose Quartz - stone of unconditional love, compassion, forgiveness and self-appreciation. Helps to forgive lovers, heal old wounds and release any lingering emotional baggage to allow new love to be attracted.

How to Use for Love

Choose which crystals you want to use - it could be one or two or all of them. Just go with what feels right for you.

Cleanse and charge your crystals ready for use.

Sit with each crystal for a few moments and programme them with the intention that they will fill you with self-love, attract love to you, heal your broken heart or keep your relationship with whomever (partner, family, friends, choose whichever is appropriate) healthy. You could say something like, “I program this crystal with the beautiful energy of love. Each time I use it, may it remind me that I am loved and I spread love to all I meet.”

Repeat three times to fully set the intention.

Wear the crystals next to your skin (if you have any of them in the form of jewellery use those) or place the crystals around your home and workspace. Look at them and let your mind absorb the colour and the vibrational energy from them.

Place two pieces of Rose Quartz, preferably Mandarin Ducks, in the South-West corner of your home (the area representing love in Feng Shui) or in your bedroom together with a picture of a happy couple. This is said to bring a love interest into your life or strengthen the relationship you already have.

Place a cleansed piece of raw Rose Quartz into a water jug in the fridge or in your water bottle to infuse the water with its loving energy.

In the morning or evening, place the crystals on the Heart Chakra if you wish to meditate with them and allow their energy to envelop you with love.

Alternatively, you can use them to make a crystal grid for love and keep it for one complete moon cycle. You could set this up for the first night of a New Moon to bring new energies into your life.

Meditation

Use the crystals you’ve chosen or a crystal grid for meditating with to help with manifesting the kind of love or loving relationships you wish to have in your life.

Affirmation: I am love. I am loved. I attract love to me effortlessly.

Important to Know

WARNING: As with all crystals you use regularly, don’t forget to cleanse and recharge it at least once a month.

For crystal healers who use crystals in their work, they should be cleansed after each client to remove any negative energy prior to being used on someone else.

PLEASE REMEMBER: Although the powers of crystals and stones are well documented and have been proven to help bring positivity into people's lives, they are never a substitute for medical advice.

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