This morning, I came into the livingroom and my youngest child Tyler (nearly ten now) sat at the table, munching on his muesli with one hand and stroking the cat who was lying beside him with the other. Of course, by the time I had taken out my phone and got the camera app open, Taani had already jumped off the table and the cuter-than-the-world's-best-cupcake picture was never taken. Sigh! Instead, I sat down beside my Mini Mouse, as I like to call him, and stroked his hair